{"id":50,"date":"2023-04-30T09:39:35","date_gmt":"2023-04-30T09:39:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/?page_id=50"},"modified":"2025-12-11T16:32:23","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T16:32:23","slug":"chemsex","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/?page_id=50","title":{"rendered":"Chemsex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"header-banner\" data-aos=\"fade-up\">\n\n\t\n\t\t<div class=\"image-overlay\" style=\"background-image:url('https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AdobeStock_410909186-scaled.jpeg')\" data-small=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AdobeStock_410909186-scaled.jpeg\" data-medium=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AdobeStock_410909186-scaled.jpeg\" data-large=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/AdobeStock_410909186-scaled.jpeg\"><\/div>\n\n\t\n\t<div class=\"inner-content\">\n\t\t<div class=\"outer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 data-aos=\"fade-down\"><span>Chemsex<\/span><\/h1>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"breaker\">\n\t<div class=\"container is-fluid\">\n\t\t<div class=\"line\"><\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"content-block no-background\" data-aos=\"fade-up\">\n\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\n\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the last few decades, the way we meet and connect has changed. Hook-up and messaging apps, digital payment platforms and the use of drugs like crystal methamphetamine, GBL\/GHB &#8211; \u2018G\u2019 and mephedrone referred to as chems and specifically to enhance sexual experiences has given rise to what is known as <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chemsex<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some people using chems can feel fun, freeing and intensely intimate at first. But over time, things can shift. Chems and chems used in a sexualised context can start to feel less like a choice and more like something that\u2019s hard to control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may be time to make some changes if:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chems are starting to harm your mental or physical health<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your work, studies or relationships are beginning to suffer<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019re taking bigger risks when you\u2019re high<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you\u2019re using chems more often or finding it hard to stop once you start<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If any of this sounds familiar, it can be a strong sign that getting some support could help you feel more in control, safer and more yourself again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether your goal is harm reduction, taking a break, or stopping altogether, I will support you to work towards what <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> want, at your pace and without judgement. It\u2019s often easier to make changes now than to wait until things feel completely unmanageable.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"image-content-columns-block\">\n\n\t\n\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"columns is-mobile is-multiline\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"column is-12-mobile is-6-tablet\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"image\" data-aos=\"fade-right\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"\" aria-label=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"image-overlay\" style=\"background-image:url('https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Coffee-cup-scaled.jpeg')\" data-small=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Coffee-cup-scaled.jpeg\" data-medium=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Coffee-cup-scaled.jpeg\" data-large=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Coffee-cup-scaled.jpeg\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"column is-12-mobile is-6-tablet\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"outer\" data-aos=\"fade-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"inner left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Many mainstream<\/strong> services still don\u2019t fully understand the use of chems or chemsex, which can make the right support hard to find and systems difficult to navigate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through my own lived and professional experience, this is an area I know well. Wherever you are on your journey, I offer a space where you can talk openly about sex, chems and connection &#8211; with time to think things through, explore your options and possible decisions without pressure or expectation.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\n<\/div>\n\n\n\t<div class=\"breaker\">\n\t\t<div class=\"container is-fluid\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"line\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"image-content-columns-block\">\n\n\t\n\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"columns is-mobile is-multiline\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"column is-12-mobile is-6-tablet\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"image\" data-aos=\"fade-right\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"\" aria-label=\"\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"image-overlay\" style=\"background-image:url('https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ben750-3-e1764360700810.jpg')\" data-small=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ben750-3-e1764360700810.jpg\" data-medium=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ben750-3-e1764360700810.jpg\" data-large=\"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/ben750-3-e1764360700810.jpg\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"column is-12-mobile is-6-tablet\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"outer\" data-aos=\"fade-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"inner left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>My personal experience and interview around Chemsex with Attitude:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=2QnTj4ycNbw\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chemsex Survivor\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"elementor_canvas","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-50","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/50","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=50"}],"version-history":[{"count":145,"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/50\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2036,"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/50\/revisions\/2036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/benkayetherapy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=50"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}