In the last few decades, the way we meet and connect has changed. Hook-up and messaging apps, digital payment platforms and the use of drugs like crystal methamphetamine, GBL/GHB – ‘G’ and mephedrone referred to as chems and specifically to enhance sexual experiences has given rise to what is known as chemsex.
For some people using chems can feel fun, freeing and intensely intimate at first. But over time, things can shift. Chems and chems used in a sexualised context can start to feel less like a choice and more like something that’s hard to control.
It may be time to make some changes if:
If any of this sounds familiar, it can be a strong sign that getting some support could help you feel more in control, safer and more yourself again.
Whether your goal is harm reduction, taking a break, or stopping altogether, I will support you to work towards what you want, at your pace and without judgement. It’s often easier to make changes now than to wait until things feel completely unmanageable.
Many mainstream services still don’t fully understand the use of chems or chemsex, which can make the right support hard to find and systems difficult to navigate.
Through my own lived and professional experience, this is an area I know well. Wherever you are on your journey, I offer a space where you can talk openly about sex, chems and connection – with time to think things through, explore your options and possible decisions without pressure or expectation.
My personal experience and interview around Chemsex with Attitude: